Its not about lists, its about hearing girls in everyday conversations. Honestly, I don’t know any girls that have a checklist, and if they do, they don’t even follow it. The problem comes from talking to girls and always hearing them describe some aspect of a guy they found attractive, some tall guy they saw that they wanted to flirt with or that had blue eyes and they couldn’t stop staring at, some guy online that has a nice body that they flirt with all the time, a guy that they gave their number to because he had a nice car and talked to them, or the large number of guys they brag about knowing who can dance or sing. Girls never shut up about this kinda stuff. They always talk about some guys they saw today or that talked to them at work or the ones they know or the ones they’d date (and why they would date them) or even the ones they’d sleep with (and why they’d sleep with them)
Not even just the girls. Guys do it, too… and its so incredibly destructive to people’s self esteem.
Media? Magazines? Fuck that. Its people.
